Break Your Shell & Walk Free

Let Me Be Your Guide

When Will I Be Good Enough?

Spent waking up every day dreading the worst? Or possibly planning your schedule to not fall into loopholes and to watch what you speak so you will not trigger your parent’s emotions?
Have you often felt that desire of wanting to be loved or spoken to with respect? You’ve tried so hard to please them, yet it was never enough.
You may not realize that you are stuck with narcissistic parents. It took me 30 years to come across this term. Half of my life was spent confused and wondering why I couldn’t have an ordinary childhood like my friends? What more must I do to make my parents happy? Until you realize your situation, it can dread to make sense of your life.
You’ve always been a child with low self-esteem, feeling unloved and dread talking to people. Or, like me, you retaliate and struggle to cross all odds to gain some recognition. Either way, you will end up emotionally drained. The effect of childhood narcissistic abuse is devastating. It destroys your world at a very young age and leaves you permanently disturbed.
If you are reading this, chances are you are looking for help. It may be easy to break free from your parents’ clutches if you choose to do so. However, the mental torture and life experiences you’ve been put through could cause a so-called brain-damaging effect. Inability to love, trust, being a people pleaser, losing self-respect and feeling of unworthiness, and finally, the fear of not being loved in a relationship. It all comes in a package and keeps your mind confused.


Why I Can Help?

Heard the song by Tove, “Been There, Done That”? I am your go-to person simply because I have been there and done that! Not only did I survive, but the empowerment techniques used have made my life filled with abundance and blessings. In the quest for self-discovery, I have gained multiple certifications and accolades.

  • Certified Mental Health & Awareness Practitioner
  • Certified Transformational Life Coach
  • Certified Life Purpose Coach
  • Certified Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT) Life Coach
  • Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Life Coach
  • Certified Train the Trainer (TTT)
  • Recipient of Malaysia’s Women Leaders by World Women Leadership Congress
  • Britishpedia Biography Encyclopedia’s Most Successful People in Malaysia
  • Featured by Livin M’sia as the Top 10 Malaysian Humanitarian and Malaysian Women Who Exemplify Its Meaning

I am also a doctorate, an academician, a researcher, a chartered engineer, an animal activist and an environmentalist, to name a few. When people close to me thought I would end up my life soon enough, I managed to break free from my shell and thrived. All these achievements did not fall like a bed of roses from the sky. It only happened when I took charge of my life. Childhood parental narcissistic abuse is a real deal, and the effects are devastating. If you don’t know where to start, you’ve come to the right place; it is my life’s mission to help those out there who have decided to take charge. Let’s get through this together. There’s a lot more to life out there; break free, stay resilient, and I will gently guide you to find your life’s purpose.


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NVET Coaching Program

The 2-month program is a mixture of Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). It addresses the mind’s way of conditioning emotions and thoughts. Coupled with group coaching sessions, the program will help participants overcome their limiting beliefs and transform them into empowering thoughts.

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Podcasts

Join our regular podcast where we share stories of survivors, tips to live a happy and fulfilling life or simply a chill-out session with renowned mental health experts and narcissistic victim-survivors.

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Stage Appearance & Talks

Looking for a speaker to share insights on mental health and narcissism. Book a call with me now.

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Still wondering whether this is for you? Contact me to arrange a free consultation session.

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